Posted by E_W on February 27, 2014
If you asking yourself "Is he/she Cheating?" Its time to start the investigation,
1. Identify your feelings
Busy is not an excuse, You deserve to be cherished and treated respectfully -- physically, emotionally and spiritually. Identify the feeling by asking around or reading from books.
2. Talk to your partner about your concerns and feelings.
Once your feeling being identified and be prepared to talk to your partner. Remember to control your anger and voices.
You will feel better about yourself if you communicate in a respectful way.
3. Watch the reaction and body language.
If he/she is cheating, he/she may respond by denying it, blaming you or he may respond angrily. Look for the following behaviors: Is he/she posturing over you (for power and control) or looking at the floor (out of shame and deceit) or is he/she humble and sorry for his/her behavior?
4. Provide physical evidence of the cheating.
Credit card statements with mysterious charges, photos, sexting dialogue on the phone, hidden email accounts, or apps on the phone to hook up with others for affairs.
Or set up a Hidden Camera in your bedroom to recording evidence at show the video to him/her.
5. Ask for honesty
6. Set appropriate physical and emotional boundaries for your personal self-care.
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